Are you dressed for your funeral? Here is a short list of items that are appropriate to wear to the funeral service. They are also appropriate for the other memorial ceremonies. The most important thing is to be respectful of others’ feelings in either case, and relatively modest, as well.
For most funerals, an ankle-length dress and matching coat will do nicely; The dress should be comfortable, and it should not be too tight. A fitted skirt will work better than a straight one and a blouse with a tapered jacket looks best if in conservative colors.